Odd sex life cycle?normal?

My bf and i have 3 kids together ages 8 ,4,and 2.We met senior year of highschool dated broke up and had a fling year later the result of which is our eldest son.For a year we tried to make it work and get it all together but failed.Few months before my 25 birthday we met up again for a chat because i had just moved back to our home state.We started dating again casually and have been together 4.5 yrs straight ever since.We are getting married by JP this week.Our sex life goes like this we chase each other around like teens then i get pregnant our sex life slows a lot after ther birth only to start up 2.5 yrs later the same thing again?Odd sex life cycle?normal?
Yeah you are right. Just take a break.
Break the cycle. Thats all.Odd sex life cycle?normal?
Have you considered using brith control?
He sounds very immature. And it sounds like you just answered your own question. Get on birth control then see how he acts.Odd sex life cycle?normal?
seems a little strange, everytime you split, you get pregnant and now your gettin married, do you really love him???
Send out an SOS to Trojan Man!
Get on birth control! That way he will revolve around getting a protected woman pregnant which makes for a great sex life. He will be trying hard and will not succeed (getting you pregnant that is).
use birth control. Three children are pleny, then you can start to maintain a more normal sex life and also a life together as a family, pehaps after the two of you maintain a normal family life you may decide you want to have another child, but best at this point to make it a choice
ummmm.....condoms anyone? You shouldnt be bringing kids into this world just becuase ur both a bunch of horny humping toads. After your first child, you should realize that you love sex, but getting pregant just bc u like sex isnt good. Sounds like if u never get pregnant than the sex shoud remain good.
I think you are just having doubts about being married. I have read your other posts, and you are all this and that. Sit down and think about it. If you are afraid of getting knocked up again, then get on birth control. It might slow down because he is afraid of getting you pregnant again. And it picks back up because he finds you desirable. Stop over analyzing everything.
It sound like you are really unsure of you guys relationship. I would be too, it seems that everytime you guys try to build a relationship you end up pregnant. You need to know that he is marrying you because he loves you not because of the kids. Good Luck
How about using an IUD? Or get your tubes tied, or he gets neutered.



Maybe he is more careful towards you physically when you are pregnant and may have nothing to do with a cycle at all.
abstain sex.
Time he stood up to the plate and got himself fixed. 3 kids is enough for any man.
It is probably normal for you. I wouldn't really worry about it. Just know that is a time to double up on birth control, if you don't want to get pregnant. I chase my husband around the house once a month. I am very aggressive. I figured out fairly quickly that this is when I was ovulating. So we double or triple up on birth control.



I think that with you and your soon to be husband, you are thinking subconsciously, OK get pregnant. Chase each other until I do. OK now pregnant, slow down take it easy-take care of new baby. Baby is now older not as much energy required as a new born. Have energy to have another. Chase each other around the house. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just double up on birth control for a while if you don't want to get pregnant.



At my house we celebrate no occasions. I got pregnant with one baby on an anniversary and another on Christmas. No more celebrations at my house.
have your tubes tied,burned and banned..... No more babies.... or have him get fixed.....
What ever works for you, but unless you want more kids you should look into a more effective form of birth control. I would personally love to have my tubes ties. Good luck, you sound normal to me
Have him get a vasectomy or you get your tubes tied and then you will find out...